Lovely Liverpool!

Gay Is OK

The other day my little sidekick and I hopped on a train and headed to Liverpool.

First stop The Walker Art Gallery and, as always, the obligatory sampling of the treats in the cafe took place straight away!

Feeling replenished we made our way around the gallery, looking at the artwork on display and came across the bold and bright activist signs and slogans by Lois Tierney.  Using her wonderfully vibrant artwork as inspiration we coloured a mini LGBT+ placard of our own to take home.

We then headed to Big Art for Little Artists, which is a section of the gallery that is dedicated to children – lots of fun to be had here! We snipped, we stuck and made……….a Zebra snake!

After letting our creative juices flow we made the short walk down the road to The World Museum, where beasts, bugs and bones were the order of the afternoon! (We particularly like the Clore Natural History Centre area, as you get your paws on all sorts of fascinating objects – from an elephant’s skull to a snakeskin (after moulting!).)

Then there was just enough time to nip to the Central Library (which is sandwiched between the gallery and museum), cosy up and leaf through a good couple of picture books before heading back to the train station and home.

Oh, and of course, a day trip isn’t complete without fleecing mum in the gift shop!



Bottles, Buttons & Beads

A Saturday morning with no plans & a collection of bottles, buttons and beads! Me and my two little sidekicks set about transforming these objects into something beautiful!

We painted. It was a glorious mess, a riot of colour!

We threaded. Concentrating on putting buttons and beads onto wire.

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We watched. The bottles dried outside and we noticed how all the paint started to mix, big blobs dropped onto the grass below.

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We transformed. We searched for a suitable stick to use. We cut, twisted and revamped all our bits into a wonderful mobile hanging!

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We then ate biscuits!! 🙂



The Gap.

I recently came across this interesting film by photographer & visual storyteller, Daniel Sax, in which American radio personality, Ira Glass, talks about the issue of ‘the gap.’ (Ira particularly make reference to writing in his talk, but his words fit all creative disciplines.) He focusses on the disappointment felt by many creatives, as they are confronted by the gap between their taste and their skill.
Maybe you’ve felt it too? 
You know what is good, but can’t always produce this quality in your own work, resulting in a shortfall, a void, a gap between what you want to create and what you actually produce. I often feel like this about my own work. I like what I create but I know that it could be a lot better.
Ira’s main point is that the only way to get past this phase is to create a large volume of work. Keep writing, singing, painting, whatever it is you do & don’t give up!
Most people quit. 
Seeing work that falls short of what they want to achieve, they put down their tools feeling like a failure. Instead of striving for success and trying to avoid defeat at all costs the healthiest attitude to adopt is a growth mindset, which thrives on challenge and views failure as a way of growing. Easier said than done I know, but take heart in the fact that the majority of creative people experience ‘the gap.’ Patience is also required, as creative success doesn’t happen overnight. It can take many years to reach your potential.
In my previous blog post I talked about the creative curve, a U-shaped line that demonstrates the creative journey. This links to ‘the gap’ idea by talking about pushing through the complexities of your work, developing skills and finding your unique artistic voice.
We should all take a leaf out of Pablo Picasso‘s book. Picasso was one of the most prolific artists of all time. His output includes over 20,000 paintings, prints, drawings, sculptures, ceramics, covering a variety of creative styles, including Cubism, Surrealism and Expressionism. Even in his eighties and nineties he kept producing artwork. Here is a man who didn’t give up!
So, to all you frustrated creatives (including myself!) remember Ira’s timeless wisdom, particularly his words at the end of Sax’s film….”you just gotta fight your way through.”

Female Artists Can’t Have Kids!!

Back in October 2014 Tracey Emin said that female artists can’t have kids, stating that it isn’t easy for women to juggle the demands of an artistic career and parenthood. You can read more here
This interview took place around the time that I had my second child. Having children does change your life, there is no question about that. Suddenly your own priorities come second to this little creature who is completely and utterly dependent upon you!
I do think that Emin has a point. It is definitely harder to do things for yourself when you have young children.
Harder, but not impossible. 
It’s quite ironic really, but I have produced more artwork since having my first child in 2012 than I did in the previous ten years when I was child-free! Crazy, when I think of all that time I had – what was I doing??!! I guess I sort of dabbled, not really being serious, letting myself get distracted.
Now I am a lot more focused.

If I have a free hour I get working instead of watching the television. If I get a day (which is a huge luxury & very rare!) I head straight down to the studio, lock the door and create. I am only human & there are of course times when I need to do nothing and relax, but I have found that since having less time I actually get a lot more done!
Arthur Ashe pretty much sums up what I am trying to do when he says ‘Start where you are. Use what you have. Do what you can.’ 
However, sometimes my good intentions are disrupted & things don’t always go to plan! 

One particular night I put the kids to bed. Husband out, house to myself – great! Race downstairs to get on with some artwork. Just get started when I hear a cry from upstairs. I rush back up. Toddler stood on landing crying, covered in sick and I mean covered! Initiate clean up mission – bath, dress, soothe toddler. Change bedding, clean floor, spray lots of Fabreeze about!

Just about to start work again when there is another cry, only this time it’s the other one! I go back up. He also has been sick. So I start the whole process all over again! The small window of opportunity I had vanished before my eyes – highly frustrating!

However, I have learned not to fight it. The children come first. There will be ups and downs. There will be many, many nights like this! I just have to accept it, laugh (and cry!) and move on.
The children are part of my life – a huge part of it. I love them, but I also love my art. So, the two often merge. I enjoy capturing their antics on paper as a reminder of their funny, quirky, heartwarming ways. Many of these scribbled drawings are on scraps of paper or in old sketchbooks – basically whatever I can get my hands on at the time.  I am in the proces of collating all these drawings – I have an idea to put them all together to create a book. The idea being that I create a library of these books over the years, something to show the boys as they grow and for me to flick through in my old age!

Emin may feel that she could never compromise her art for children, but I feel that my children often enhance my artwork and provide new ideas that I’d never thought of previously.